Even though I consider myself very familiar with death and the loss of loved ones, I cannot say that I have ever experienced losing someone with whom I was once romantically linked.

It's a strange feeling to know that you once kissed someone who is now gone.

J was an all-around great guy, and could never fail to make me laugh. He was one of the smartest people I've ever known, and I have no doubt that his life would have been a rich one.

I miss you, buddy.

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